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Frequently Asked Questions
Gestational Carrier
Thinking of becoming an Gestational Carrier?

Our Gestational Carrier FAQ covers everything you need to know—from the basics to the process and beyond. Start here to get informed and feel confident on your journey.

General FAQs

What does it mean to be a gestational carrier?

A gestational carrier is a woman who agrees to become pregnant through embryo transfer and carry the pregnancy for the Intended Parents. She has no biological connection to the baby (or babies) she is carrying. The egg comes from the intended mother (or an egg donor), and the sperm comes from the intended father (or a sperm donor). So, the gestational carrier is only responsible for carrying the child, with no biological link to the baby.

Will you use my eggs for the pregnancy?

No, we only provide gestational surrogacy at An Eggceptional Match. There is no genetic connection between the gestational carrier (surrogate) and the unborn child.

Does An Eggceptional Match coordinate cycles out of state?

Yes. AEM matches Intended parents with egg donors and gestational carriers (also referred to as surrogates) throughout the United States and internationally.

Can I be a GC if I do not have insurance?

Yes! If you’re uninsured or your policy excludes surrogacy, AEM will refer the Intended Parents to a broker to secure coverage for the pregnancy. This policy begins being used once pregnancy is confirmed and the Intended Parents cover all out-of-pocket costs.

You may review the qualifications here.

Why might I not be accepted into the surrogacy program?

You may be denied as a surrogate due to factors such as restrictive state surrogacy laws, medical or psychological complications in previous pregnancies, health concerns, age (usually 21-40), lifestyle factors (e.g., smoking or drug use), or issues with prior surrogacies. Each agency and clinic may have specific requirements.

Why does receiving government assistance disqualify me?

To qualify as a gestational carrier, you must be financially stable. This is not only a key factor that many Intended Parents consider, but it also demonstrates your genuine desire to help others through surrogacy. Furthermore, the compensation you receive may make you ineligible for most government assistance programs.

Is surrogacy legal?

Laws and regulations vary by state and are constantly changing. Ultimately, it depends on the state where you live.

Is it safe to carry a child for someone else?

AEM cares deeply about our clients, egg donors, and gestational carriers, who we consider part of our family. We would never place you in a position of risk. The fertility clinic chosen by the Intended Parents will discuss potential risks and side effects of the medications used during the process, including those for the embryo transfer. It’s also essential that you consult with your OB to ensure you’re physically able to carry another pregnancy and obtain your OB Clearance Letter. Your OB will provide the best advice on whether this journey is safe for you and outline the usual risks associated with pregnancy.

Compensation

What is common compensation for a GC?

While An Eggceptional Match will advise you on industry standards, the requested compensation is entirely up to you! Consideration for carrying multiples will increase your compensation per fetus.  This compensation package does not include stipends for the duration of the journey.

Can I earn compensation for referring someone?

An Eggceptional Match has a refer and earn program! As your referral’s journey progresses, you continue to earn! Learn more here!

Matching

How long does it take to be matched?

An Eggceptional Match is a full-service, boutique agency that custom matches you. While a match may happen in a few weeks, it can sometimes take months or may not occur at all. The process depends on factors like personalities, location, fees, insurance, and shared moral/ethical beliefs. While we understand your eagerness, we focus on ensuring the best match for all parties’ needs and desires!

Do my religious or cultural beliefs influence matching with IPs?

Yes, it is possible. In fact, each match is unique, and this could be one of the key criteria the Intended Parents are seeking in their journey.

Cycle

Will I have to administer shots for the journey?

Yes, you’ll administer the shots at home. You can do them yourself or ask a friend or family member for help. The clinical team will guide you on preparing and giving the medication and provide documentation and videos for reference.

Can I use my previous OB for my journey?

Possibly. Some Intended Parents prefer to make that decision together, while others are happy to let you choose the provider you’re most comfortable with.

What if I do not become pregnant?

Most Gestational Carrier Agreements are drafted to reflect a negotiated number of transfer attempts within a designated time period.

What types of rules/laws are in place to protect me?

An Eggceptional Match will connect you with legal counsel experienced in our industry and familiar with the laws in your planned delivery state.

What kind of legal contract is required to protect me?

Your contract will be created specifically for gestational surrogacy in the state where the birth occurs. It will cover finances, the birth plan, and both parties’ expectations. In Colorado, a pre-birth order (PBO) will establish the legal parent(s) before delivery.

What is included in the Gestational Carrier Agreement?

Your attorney will review this detailed document with you before finalization and filing. It includes financial information, the birth plan, and both parties’ expectations.

Is there an emergency number for 24/7 contact?

We provide an after-hours number, but in a true medical emergency, call 911. For non-urgent medical assistance, contact your fertility doctor.

Who will pay the bills for the pregnancy visits?

The Intended Parents will cover all pregnancy-related expenses. While insurance should cover medical bills, out-of-pocket costs, co-pays, and deductibles may apply. If you receive any medical invoices related to your surrogacy, please forward them to our agency for assistance.

What am I responsible for after the baby is born?

Taking good care of YOU! You must give your body and mind time to recover!

Still have questions? Feel free to contact us!