Thank You for Considering An Eggceptional Match
At An Eggceptional Match, we want to take a heartfelt moment to thank you for considering our agency and trusting us with your family-building journey. As a nurse-owned and operated agency with extensive experience in assisted reproduction, we understand the emotional and medical complexities that come with this path.
What sets us apart is our unique combination of compassionate care and clinical expertise. Our founder, a seasoned fertility nurse, brings firsthand knowledge to the table—ensuring not only access to some of the most qualified egg donor candidates but also the reassurance and guidance you deserve throughout your journey.
We understand that the decision to use an egg donor is deeply personal and, at times, overwhelming. Whether this is your first time or your fifth, our team is here to support you every step of the way. Our mission is to make the process as smooth, efficient, and stress-free as possible, while working to increase your chances of success.
We are honored to walk beside you on this journey and are committed to helping you build the family you’ve been dreaming of.
Warmly,
The AEM Team
At An Eggceptional Match, we take great care in selecting each egg donor to ensure the highest standards of quality, reliability, and commitment. Our donors are between the ages of 21 and 33, and each has been preliminarily screened and considered a viable candidate based on the information provided in her application.
Once you’ve selected a donor, our team will work closely with her to ensure she fully understands the time commitment, level of personal accountability, and reliability required throughout the process. Before proceeding with preliminary medical screening, your chosen candidate will receive detailed information about the medical interventions, hormone injections, and procedures she will undergo on your behalf.
First-time donors are compensated $8,000–$10,000, with higher rates requested by those with proven or Eggceptional status. We’re proud to support and prepare our donors every step of the way. Hear directly from them by exploring our donor testimonials:
Beginning your journey through egg donation is both exciting and emotional. At An Eggceptional Match, our goal is to make this experience as clear, supportive, and stress-free as possible.
From the moment you complete your initial questionnaire to the day of egg retrieval, we’ll guide you through each step with care and professionalism. You can expect personalized attention, timely communication, and expert coordination with your fertility clinic and legal team.
Here’s a step-by-step look at what to expect as you move forward in the egg donation process:
Step 1: Complete the Online Questionnaire
To begin your journey with us, we kindly ask all intended parents to complete our Recipient Questionnaire and upload 1–2 photos of themselves.
These details help us better understand your preferences and needs so we can find the most compatible match for you. Please rest assured that all personal information and photos are kept strictly confidential and used exclusively by An Eggceptional Match for matching purposes. We do not share your information with any third parties.
Step 2: Choosing Your Donor Candidate
We understand that selecting the right donor can feel overwhelming—it’s a deeply personal decision and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. As you review potential candidates, you may want to consider factors such as:
- Anonymous vs. Open Donation
- Physical Characteristics
- Family Medical History
- Personality Traits
- Academic, Artistic, or Musical Background
Once you’ve selected a donor, a non-refundable—but transferable—$500 retainer fee will place the candidate on hold for you. At that point, AEM will submit the donor’s profile and medical records to your fertility clinic for preliminary clinical approval.
Step 3: Finalizing Agreements and Escrow
Once your donor candidate receives preliminary clinical approval from your fertility clinic, the next step is to complete the necessary paperwork and financial arrangements.
At this stage, the following must be completed before moving forward:
- Signing of the Agency Agreement and Fee Schedule
- Funding of the escrow account in full
These steps ensure that all parties are protected and prepared for the next phase of your journey. Our team will guide you through each detail to make this process as smooth and transparent as possible.
Step 4: Medical and Psychological Evaluations
At this stage, your selected donor candidate will begin a series of clinical and psychological evaluations to ensure she is medically and emotionally ready to proceed.
Medical Testing:
Your fertility clinic will schedule a blood draw and ultrasound during days 2–4 of the donor’s menstrual cycle. These tests assess important fertility markers, including:
- FSH (Follicle Stimulating Hormone)
- Estradiol
- AMH (Anti-Müllerian Hormone)
- Antral Follicle Count (via ultrasound, if required by the clinic)
These results help determine the donor’s ovarian reserve and overall fertility potential. Please note that testing protocols may vary slightly between clinics.
Psychological Screening:
Your donor will also undergo a psychological evaluation, which includes:
- A face-to-face interview
- A written personality assessment such as the MMPI or PAI
This evaluation must be conducted by a licensed social worker or psychologist. You may use a professional affiliated with your clinic or we would be happy to refer someone experienced in third-party reproduction.
In addition, prospective parents are also required to complete a psychological consult. A copy of this documentation must be provided to AEM before proceeding; your clinic can email confirmation upon completion.
Additional Screening:
Once the psychological evaluation is passed, your donor will undergo further testing at your fertility clinic, including:
- Drug screening
- Communicable disease testing
- Genetic screening
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- Cystic Fibrosis
- Tay-Sachs
- Thalassemia
- Sickle Cell Anemia
- Fragile X
- Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA)
These screenings provide valuable insights and can help you make informed choices for your family-building journey.
These steps are essential to ensure the safety and readiness of all parties involved in the egg donation process.
Step 5: Legal Contracts
At this stage in the process, it’s time to finalize legal agreements and complete additional medical counseling. Legal contracts will be drafted by experienced attorneys within AEM’s trusted referral network. As part of our services, AEM will also coordinate independent legal counsel for the egg donor on behalf of the prospective parents.
Prospective parents are welcome to use legal counsel outside of the AEM referral network; however, please note that flat fee agreements may not apply in those cases. You also have the right to waive legal representation or secure your own, but we strongly recommend working with an attorney who:
- Specializes in reproductive law
- Is licensed to practice in the state where your cycle will take place
AEM believes in protecting all parties and encourages everyone involved to seek proper legal guidance.
Step 6: Cycle Calendar and Medication Protocol
Once legal clearance is confirmed, your fertility clinic will provide a detailed cycle calendar outlining the timeline for your donor’s journey. This calendar will include:
- Medication protocols
- Appointment dates for lab work and ultrasounds
- The scheduled egg retrieval date
From this point forward, your donor will begin following the calendar closely—taking medications as prescribed and attending all monitoring appointments. These visits help track her response to the medication and ensure her body is responding appropriately in preparation for the retrieval.
AEM will stay in close communication with your clinic to help coordinate and support the donor every step of the way.
At An Eggceptional Match, we believe you deserve clear, upfront information—especially when it comes to finances. We’re committed to full transparency so you can move forward with confidence, knowing exactly what to expect at every step of your journey.
