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Become a Gestational Carrier
Program Information

Dear Gestational Carrier,

What a truly amazing woman you must be to offer such a gift! We thank you and applaud you for opening your heart to such wonderful, deserving couples while you consider being a gestational carrier on their behalf. Although financial incentives are offered, you will be rewarded in so many other unexpected ways.

Choosing to become a gestational carrier is a significant decision, one that requires thoughtful reflection and a full understanding of the emotional and physical journey ahead. It is equally profound for the intended parents, who have often endured great emotional and financial hardship to get to this point. That’s why we carefully screen and support each of our candidates—to ensure that this sacred journey is approached with respect, readiness, and mutual care.

At An Eggceptional Match, we are committed to guiding you with compassion, transparency, and support every step of the way. Your well-being is just as important as the dreams you’re helping fulfill.

With heartfelt gratitude and respect,
Angela Bevill, RN, BSN
Program Director

Why Become a Gestational Carrier?

Because giving someone the chance to have a child is one of the most powerful, selfless gifts you can give.

You’re not just carrying a baby—you’re carrying someone’s dream.

Qualifications of a Gestational Carrier:

  • Age: Between 21 and 40 years old
  • Residency: U.S. citizen currently residing in a state with surrogacy-friendly laws
  • Health:
    • Non-smoker, with no history of alcohol or drug abuse
    • No clinical mental health diagnoses
    • Maintains a healthy lifestyle with an excellent medical history
  • BMI: Between 19–32 (check with this BMI Calculator)
  • Medications: Not currently taking medications that could be harmful during pregnancy (including psychotropic drugs)
  • Evaluations: Must pass both a physical and psychological screening
    • Partner (if applicable) must be available for evaluation
  • Pregnancy History:
    • Must have previously given birth and parented at least one child
    • No more than 5 total deliveries (maximum of 3 C-sections; the surrogacy pregnancy may be the 6th)
    • No history of severe post-partum depression or anxiety
  • Breastfeeding: Must not be currently breastfeeding (you may apply while weaning)
  • Environment: Must have a stable and supportive home environment

At An Eggceptional Match, we believe that every gestational carrier deserves to feel supported, valued, and empowered throughout her journey. While we’ll guide you based on current industry standards, your requested surrogate compensation is ultimately set by you!

If you carry multiples, your compensation will increase per fetus. Additionally, the intended parents will cover other non-accountable expenses related to your role as a surrogate, including:

  • Lost wages

  • Travel cost – both local and long distance

  • Maternity clothing

  • Vitamins and supplements

  • Childcare, if applicable

These costs are covered through a third-party escrow account established by the intended parents. Co-pays, prescriptions, and certain medical expenses are also handled by the intended parents.

Do’s and Don’ts During Your Cycle

Recommended Guidelines

Diet

  • Maintain a healthy, balanced diet
  • Increase fiber as needed (e.g., Metamucil, psyllium, Citrucel)

Exercise

  • Before transfer: No restrictions
  • After transfer: Limit to low-impact activities (walking, stationary bike, light elliptical)

Medications

  • Tylenol (regular or extra strength)
  • Colace (stool softener)
  • Prenatal vitamins
  • Any medications prescribed or approved by the fertility clinic

Have questions? Explore our most frequently asked questions and answers here!

Please Avoid

Diet

  • Weight loss programs
  • Alcohol
  • Caffeine
  • Tobacco products (including vaping)

Exercise & Environment

  • Weightlifting, high-impact or abdominal exercises
  • Heart rate exceeding 140 bpm
  • Excessive sun exposure
  • Hot tubs and saunas

Medications & Substances

  • Aspirin, Ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin, Nuprin), Anaprox (Aleve)
  • Antihistamines
  • Recreational drugs (tobacco, marijuana, CBD/THC in any form)
  • Herbal supplements or vitamin blends (other than prenatal vitamins), unless approved by your physician
What to expect

Step 1: Initial Application and Approval

Your gestational carrier journey begins here by carefully reviewing the information provided, then complete the online GC application in full. To avoid any delays in the screening process, please ensure every field is filled out completely.

Once we receive your completed application, we’ll schedule an interview—either in person or via video call—to get to know you better and answer any questions you may have about the surrogacy process.

Step 2 - Surrogate Matching process

Once your application is reviewed and your initial interview is complete, you’ll officially begin the surrogate selection process. We will share your profile and photos with clients seeking a gestational carrier through An Eggceptional Match. Once a prospective parent or couple expresses interest in working with you, we will send you their profile to review as well.

This is a deeply personal and intentional process. Intended parents have carefully considered the personality, lifestyle, values, and overall compatibility they hope to find in their surrogate. Please know that if you are not selected by one family, it simply means your Eggceptional Match is still ahead!

Once a match is mutually agreed upon, a full background check will be conducted by an independent agency. The same high standards apply to the intended parents—they must also complete a thorough psychological screening and background check to move forward.

Step 3 - The Initial Meetings

After you’re selected by intended parent(s), we’ll schedule an initial phone call to help you and the prospective parent(s) connect. During this call, you’ll have the opportunity to discuss shared values, ask important questions, and start building a strong foundation for your surrogacy journey.

If both sides feel confident moving forward, the next step is a Match Meeting—either in person or via video call. During this meeting, we’ll dive deeper into expectations, communication styles, and the details of the journey ahead. This step is essential to making sure everyone is fully aligned and ready to move forward as a team!

Step 4: Full Medical & Mental Health Screening

Once you and the intended parents agree to move forward, the next step is a full workup. This includes both mental health and medical evaluations to make sure you’re fully prepared for the journey ahead.

First, you’ll complete a psychological evaluation with a licensed professional who specializes in Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) and gestational carrier assessments. Depending on the situation, a home visit may also be requested to further support the evaluation process.

Next, you’ll undergo a full medical screening, which includes:

  • A comprehensive physical exam

  • A gynecological evaluation

  • A uterine assessment

  • Routine testing for sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

These evaluations usually take place at the intended parents’ fertility clinic. However, if needed, they may be arranged at a qualified clinic closer to you.

Additionally, if you are married or in a committed relationship, your partner will also need to complete a psychological evaluation and bloodwork. Rest assured, all evaluation costs are fully covered by the intended parents.

Step 5: Completing the Legal Process

Before beginning any injectable medications, a legally binding contract—called a Gestational Carrier Agreement (GCA)—must be completed between the gestational carrier (GC) and the intended parents.

This agreement is designed to protect the rights, responsibilities, and expectations of everyone involved. It covers important topics such as:

  • Parental rights
  • Medical decisions
  • Compensation and covered expenses
  • Confidentiality
  • Legal obligations in the event of complications
  • Custody of the child after birth

Each party will have separate legal representation to ensure their rights are protected and their voices heard. An Eggceptional Match will help coordinate this process and connect you with experienced reproductive attorneys.

Once both sides have reviewed and signed the agreement, the intended parents’ attorney will issue a legal clearance letter to the fertility clinic, confirming that the contract is finalized. Only then can the transfer portion of the surrogacy process begin.

This legal process is essential to safeguard everyone involved—especially you as the surrogate—and to ensure a smooth and secure GC journey from start to finish.

Step 6: The Pregnancy

Once you complete the legal process, the fertility clinic will give you a cycle calendar. This calendar outlines your medication schedule, monitoring appointments, and the anticipated embryo transfer date. From there, you’ll attend several lab work and ultrasound appointments to make sure your body is responding well to the treatment plan.

Following the embryo transfer, you’ll return for two HCG blood tests to confirm pregnancy. If confirmed, you’ll then have two heartbeat ultrasounds to track early development. At this point, your life insurance policy will also go into effect. If you’re carrying one baby, you’ll typically transition to your regular OB around week 10. However, if you’re carrying multiples, you may continue with the fertility clinic until about week 12.

Between weeks 16 and 20, the intended parents and their attorney will start filing for a pre-birth order. This ensures their names appear on the baby’s birth certificate. Around the same time, a birth plan will be finalized and sent—along with the pre-birth order—to the social worker at your chosen delivery hospital.

When the big day arrives, many hospitals offer a separate recovery room for the intended parents and their newborn. This arrangement gives you a quiet space to rest and recover, while still allowing meaningful moments with the family if you choose.

After delivery, your journey shifts to focus on healing, resting, and celebrating the incredible gift you’ve given. Throughout it all, our team remains by your side, ready to support your emotional and physical recovery.

Gestational Carrier Testimonials

Surrogacy is even more meaningful when shared!

Have a friend, sister, or coworker who’s interested in becoming a surrogate? Refer her to our gestational carrier program and help build another beautiful family—plus receive a thank-you bonus when she’s matched!

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