Since 2002, An Eggceptional Match has been honored to assist in the creation of families. We provide comprehensive support throughout each stage of the journey, ensuring that you are fully informed, guided, and cared for every step of the way. At AEM, our commitment extends beyond service — we treat every individual with the respect and compassion of family.

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An Eggceptional Match proudly works with clients of all races, sexual orientations, ages, marital statuses, and religious beliefs. Because clinic policies and reproductive laws vary by state, we’ll connect you with a licensed reproductive attorney who understands your state’s legal requirements.

AEM facilitates matches between intended parents and egg donors, as well as gestational carriers (also known as surrogates), both within the United States and internationally.

We offer an after-hours contact number; however, in the event of a true medical emergency, we recommend contacting your fertility doctor or dialing 911 for immediate assistance.

Financing programs for IVF are available online through RESOLVE and other sources. Additionally, you may inquire about payment plans or cash payment options directly with your IVF clinic. Please note that participation may vary by clinic.

Fees can vary significantly between clinics. For an accurate estimate, please reach out to your clinic directly.

No, your escrow estimate is tailored to your specific journey, and the method of payment will not impact the total cost.

We are not tax professionals – we recommend consulting with a tax expert to address your specific tax needs. A general guideline is that infertility treatments for the taxpayer, their spouse, or their dependent may be eligible for itemization. For further details, please refer to visit IRS Publication 502

No.

AEM will be here to support you throughout the egg donation process as each journey is unique. You are welcome to review our process flow for a detailed overview here.

Anonymous:
No identifying information is exchanged, and there is no direct contact between the parties. While complete anonymity can’t be guaranteed due to technology, we take all necessary steps to protect identities. The Donor-Conceived Persons and Families of Donor-Conceived Persons Protection Act requires that medical histories be shared, and donor-conceived individuals can access identifying info once they reach adulthood.

Semi-open/Semi-known:
Only first names are shared, and AEM may facilitate a video meeting. Once names are exchanged, complete anonymity can no longer be guaranteed.

Open:
Full demographic information is shared. This option may foster a relationship, allow for annual updates, or facilitate sharing of medical information.

An Eggceptional Match carefully reviews each applicant before approval. We disqualify women with medical or social histories that make them ineligible for donation. The ideal candidate is a healthy women between the ages of 19 and 33 with no history of genetic abnormalities that could be passed on to offspring.

Several factors can influence the cost of your cycle such as egg donor location and her compensation request. Please visit our Donor Egg Program (Intended Parents) page to view the Fees and Payment Schedule or call our office directly.

Egg donation is regulated by federal and state laws, along with ethical guidelines to protect all parties. An Eggceptional Match will refer you to a licensed attorney in your state to guide you through the process.

The agency does not make this decision as this would be determined by your fertility doctor. You will be responsible for all charges related to your cycle up until the point of cancellation. Agency fees will be based on your position in the cycle at the time of cancellation.

AEM strives to follow the guidelines set forth by the ASRM, however, your clinical team will be able to provide the best course of action based on the specifics of your journey.

AEM is here to support you throughout your surrogacy journey as we recognize that each journey is Eggceptional in its own special ways. We invite you to review our process flow for a comprehensive overview here.

Our experienced GC’s have been screened, however, all testing must be completed and/or updated according to your clinic’s policies. This may be done by in-house staff at your fertility clinic or outsourced to a licensed social worker or a Ph.D. specialized in our field. First-time carriers will not be screened until they are chosen as most clinics will determine who they want to use for screening and will require screening at the time of the cycle.

Yes, it could as you will also need to be selected by the gestational carrier you are interested in. This is equally her journey – she will have thoughts and input regarding the relationship.

It is common for the Gestational Carrier Agreement (GCA) to be drafted reflecting a negotiated number of transfer attempts within a 12 to 18-month period.

Yes, the clinic will send the results directly to you, your GC, and the agency. AEM will also ensure all parties are updated as information becomes available.

Your Gestational Carrier Agreement will be tailored specifically for gestational surrogacy in the state where the birth will occur. It will include all information pertaining to finances, the birth plan, as well as all expectations of the parties participating. In Colorado, a Pre-Birth Order (PBO) will legally establish the parent(s) of the child before delivery.

This is a very lengthy and detailed document that your attorney will draft and review with you prior to finalization and filing. It typically covers issues such as parental rights, compensation, medical procedures, health requirements, and the handling of potential complications during the pregnancy.

Since we do not arrange traditional surrogacy (where the baby has a biological link to the GC) you are more protected. Your rights and responsibilities, as well as those of the GC, will be outlined in the Gestational Carrier Agreement, notarized before being filed in the birth state. Additionally, all GCs undergo thorough medical and psychological screening by your clinical team before approval for embryo transfer.

Everyone starts a surrogacy journey with the best intentions, but it’s important to address potential concerns in your Gestational Carrier Agreement (GCA). Legal protection matters, but open communication and a strong relationship with your carrier are just as important to keep everyone on the same page.

Colorado allows for a Pre-Birth Order (PBO) to be filed between 16-20 weeks gestation. In other states, this process varies depending on the county, statute and/or the judge. Your attorney will be able to best advise you.

Laws vary by state. In Colorado, your attorney will file a pre-birth order between 16–20 weeks of pregnancy so you’re listed as the legal parent(s) on the birth certificate at birth. AEM will connect you with an attorney familiar with your state’s laws to guide you through the process.

Once your baby is discharged from the hospital, you’re free to take them home.

At An Eggceptional Match, the gestational carrier sets her own compensation, and we guide her based on industry standards. Payments are made as the journey progresses and certain milestones are met. Base compensation begins after your clinic confirms two fetal heartbeats.

A third-party escrow handles all payments, following the terms outlined in your Gestational Carrier Agreement.

No, each individual journey is different and comes with “variable expenses”. While we can’t guarantee a fixed price, we provide a detailed overview of variable expenses for your review within our fee structure.

The cost varies based on the GC you select, her insurance coverage, travel expenses, and variable reimbursements.

The fee schedule is a comprehensive list of potential expenditures to help meet your budgetary needs. The Gestational Carrier Agreement will outline the total estimated cost, along with a detailed breakdown of all approved expenses.

AEM has a close working relationship with SeedTrust escrow, however, we remain open to working with any established and reputable escrow company.

The agreed-upon fee schedule lists all variable costs to help you plan financially for your journey. The third-party escrow holder will also send you itemized statements showing any payments made from your account.

Fees for the agency, GC, attorneys, escrow, and others accumulate as the cycle progresses. Once disbursed, they are non-refundable.

Your Agency Fees may be transferred to another GC if you decide to choose an alternative candidate from our program prior to legal clearance. However, there may be additional fees to interview, screen, and re-match you with a new candidate.

An experienced gestational carrier brings confidence and ease to the process, reducing stress for everyone involved. She often already understands the cycle, may have maternity clothes on hand, and could reuse a completed psychological screening—saving time and money for the intended parents. Her past success also shows she’s responsible, emotionally stable, and fully capable of meeting her commitments.

What is covered largely depends on the type of insurance the GC has. You will be responsible for any increase in premiums related to maternity benefits, including co-payments and deductibles. The insurance will only apply once an ongoing pregnancy is confirmed, with all treatments leading up to that point remaining the responsibility of the Intended Parent(s).

While a GC with her own insurance can save you money on monthly premiums throughout the pregnancy, it is rare to find policies without clear exclusions.

AEM will refer you to an unbiased third-party specialist to review the insurance policy of your chosen carrier to determine policy eligibility for a surrogacy cycle. If the GC has a clear exclusion or is uninsured, the broker will assist you and your chosen GC in securing a policy to be used during the pregnancy and delivery. This coverage will not take effect until a confirmed pregnancy has been established by the clinic. You will be responsible for all out-of-pocket expenses until this milestone has been met.